Let me pose a question. If your neighbor went to your 6 year old and had a bunch of conversations with them out in the open and in front of everyone. They never go near them or touch them so your think nothing of it. But in a couple days your 6 year old asks how well you please mommy may change her mood. What would you do if you knew the only other person your child talked to was your respectful non-touching neighbor? What would you call that person, whether they were male or female?